When you're looking to spice things up in the bedroom, dirty talk can easily come to mind.
At face value, dirty talk seems relatively straightforward and easy to do. All you have to do is say exactly what you want, right?
Well, I've got good news for you: If you're looking to add some frisky language to your repertoire, I've rounded up some dirty talk phrases for beginners that you can try out as soon as tonight. Whether you're introducing dirty talk into your bedroom for the first time, or you've tried it before and want to feel more confident, discussing the subject before you hit the sheets might calm your nerves.
Another way to test the waters is by sexting. Remember, there's no single "right" way to turn up the heat. The best seductive language is the kind that comes naturally to you.
But it can sometimes be tough to think straight when your mind is occupied by, um, other things — so feel free to slip a few of these phrases into your back pocket. Relax, have fun, and before you'll know it, you'll be a dirty-talk pro. One of the best ways to ease into a little dirty talk is to describe how your partner's actions make you feel in the moment.
As an added bonus, this is a great way to encourage and direct your partner toward doing more of what you crave. Try whispering your plans for them gently in their ear.
Trust me when I say a little dirty talk in a low voice will guarantee you their full attention. Once you're fully feeling the fantasy, don't be afraid to let your partner know what you want. Take control by giving them instructions on exactly what feels good for you.
Then want you to kiss every part of my body. Talking dirty in bed for the first time can seem a little scary, but you may be surprised by just how easily and naturally it rolls off the tongue once you get started This article was originally published on May 3, By Rachel Shatto.
Talk about how you feel. Tell them what you want to do them. Tell them what you want.