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I often get asked by my male clients if there's a guide for how to get a girl to like you. I ask them: Why do you want to date women?
Below are five tips to make talking to women easier if the fear of approaching one makes you tongue-tied. If she chooses not to respond to you, it is not about you.
She probably isn't looking for anyone, has her own insecurities, or is not interested. The mere thought of having to initiate conversation with other people, let alone a woman, is draining, intimidating, and daunting for introverts.
Just remember, half of the population are introverts, so it can be equally hard for women to respond back. The difference between a close-ended question and an open-ended question is that when you ask a close-ended question the answer is either yes or no. Before you head out the door, create a list of 5 or 10 things you can talk about — be it current events, politics, sports, or a hobby — and be open to listening and hearing differing opinions.
Women want to feel special. For us to give you our or talk to you longer than two minutes, we need to feel a connection.
If you're stuck in the online dating world and don't know how to talk to women, these tips will help you.
Generally speaking, when women go out to a bar or club, they are going out to have time with friends first, and maybe talk to a guy if he shows a genuine interest in her. Women often look to their best girlfriends to give a thumb up or down on if a guy seems like a good guy or not. Remember, a lot of times women are just getting together to wind down and spend time with friends.
Canvassing other people in committed relationships, most of them met outside of the nightlife.
If you're focusing on just having a good time in the moment, this is one way that women begin to open up and have time to decide whether or not they feel like there is chemistry. Asking for a friendly game of darts or pool on teams is fun, we all get to relax, and in the meantime get to know one another a little bit.
These tips come from life and professional experience.
What it boils down to is whether or not you believe you can find someone compatible with you, and whether or not you have the skill set of active listening. Getting outside of your head, and removing any insecurities and listening blocks is half the battle. This gives you time to get to know each other, develop a relationship, and to see if that friendship can turn into something more intimate.
Lyndsay Katauskas is a personal coach who specializes in relationships, divorce, grief, and trauma. in.
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